Many times we cling to a person, to a job that is not good for us: we have no place in that person’s life or that job is toxic to us. It’s hard to put an end to, it can hurt a lot.
In the long run, however, we realize that there are other jobs we can have, if we want, if we assume a change. It will be better for us outside a relationship in which we are last on the list of priorities, next to the snowman, than to be frustrated every day.
About that Romanian saying: ‘what is meant to stay, will stay’.